Valentines Day

LOVE IS A FEELING

Though I am from Mars, and speak a different language, yesterday on Valentine’s Day, I felt the need to reach out to my other half, my beautiful friends from Venus on a day that was inspired by cupid. I penned a quote and then dedicated a song reflecting to them. Then tagged those who were the last to interact with me on Facebook. (The max FB allowed was 50). Some responded publicly (<3) and some privately to express their appreciation for my composed words and the beautiful song by John Legend which expressed, “All of me loves all of you” even down to your “perfect imperfections” Their reactions to the post and my experiences with others in the past, inspired me to write this blog about Love.

Make Yourself Happy

There are so many who are not in love and are seeking to be, without also being aware that there are so many who are in love, but don’t feel loved. That’s why my FB status on Valentines's Day was, “You don’t have to be in love to pour yourself a tall glass of love,” because if you are not happy and in love with you, how can you expect another to make you happy or be in love with you?

Remove Your Dark Glasses

If you take take off your dark glasses, drop your baggage and take off your tough as nails armor you will start to see how much love is all around you. Love is less complicated than we make it so stop trying to control how you think it should unfold.

Don’t Be Fake – Be You

You cannot impress, deceive or compel someone into loving you and besides who really wants someone to fall in love for the wrong reasons or with a fake you. To be truly in love your souls have to connect and how do you expect your mate to see your soul when it is masked by a fake you? Yes fake face, fake hair, fake nails, fake boobs, fake butt, fake name; you name it… All fake and that may not be the only thing that is fake; the voice, accent, laughter and personality may also be fake.

Attracting The Wrong Things

How can you expect your mate to fall in love with the real you when you are spending so much time and energy into being someone other than you? The byproduct of such behavior is similar to men who feel dejected after trying to impress woman with money and material things and then coming to realize years later that she only loves them not him. What’s the surprise here? He groomed her to love them not him? Are you also guilty of grooming your man to love something other than you? You know… This will only lead to him eventually loving someone other than you, when you can no longer deliver on the package you presented. It’s the universal laws of attraction and the law of cause and effect at play here. Are you attracting the wrong things and are you causing the wrong things to happen to you?

 Love Is A Feeling

For me personally… I put the least amount of emphasis on the things I can see and the most on the unseen. That’s right… Love is a feeling.

 Some of the most enchanting physical beauties have the most ugly souls.

 My natural affinity is to fall in love with a beautiful soul in lieu of a beautiful body, if faced with a choice. Selah

 (“Selah” {context}: weigh these words or think deeply about these things)

 PS: I was told that my words as well as the John Legend song “All of Me” spoke to your heart and soul, on a day that was filled with love everywhere. Well Venus, if my words are speaking to you and truly becoming your song, then I would also like to a dedicate Roberta Flack’s “Killing me Softly.”

Love & Light

SOM

 

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