The Spew Yawker

…..Think it!….Quip it!

April 14, 2012

 I'm not getting smaller I'm backing away from you

Some of life's paradigms should be smashed and not recycled. Marriage vows should be rank number one this top ten list of unjustifiable arguments. Instead of until death do us part, it should be restated to, and until life's interruptions do us part.

The unquestioned and gullible acceptance of the false expectations of bliss is that the things that you desire in your twenties are the same shit you are going to care about in your forties, that is, if you care about anything at all by then, really.

Here's the reality, a fundamental fabric of our being is that at some point on life's journey, you are going to care and love this person in your life.

However, one day as night follows day, you are going to wake up and look at the person lying beside you in bed and say to yourself, "WTF am I doing; I can do better, this cannot be all there is to life; do I even know this person or even want to know.. But one day you are going through the daily motions of the drudgery of your numbness and just like that, you meet that once in a life time chance encounter and suddenly your world is turned upside down.

You will wrestle and struggle with this moral dilemmas. Remember life happens, and one of those unexplained paradoxes of the life that we so cherish is that, at the end of the day; the heart wants, what the heart wants.