Stuttering, Muttering & Suffering
Trust should be earned but not given. Most people don't understand that once that sacred circle of expectation is broken, or that boundary of vulnerability is crossed, things can never go back to the ways we envisioned they once were; hence, we use some kind of glue to make bonds of compromises.
Suffice to say, if you understand that one cannot give what one doesn't have or know how to give, then it makes accepting human frailties much easier to stomach.