the world who whispers in your ear. Why do you tag, manipulate photographs (two pictures beside each other) or incite a possible brewing relationship to the world about someone who is not doing the same for you.

Do not do it. You look desperate worst if the whisperer is known to be on the same social site and is not doing the same. When the whisperer stops whispering too much time will be spent removing all the photo tags and love posts. Let us try to reserve such posts for the official relationships. The ones where the pastor ate some of the cake and the ones that the men are the ones seeking reciprocation.

Some will argue that what someone posts on their social network page is totally their business. Your darn right; however; dont go seeking anyones sympathy when the whisper stops whispering.  Do not go around telling other ladies that "all men are four legged animals " and that no good men are left. Learn to become a woman of substance. Become a rare and desired woman and let the whisperer whispers until he learns how to sing to call you to his throne and keep you there.  

A woman of substance is a woman of power, a woman of positive influence and a woman of meaning. To be branded a woman of substance is one of the greatest compliments one can give a woman that wants to be an “influential” female. Below, I have assembled four qualities a girl/woman should possess in order to become a “woman of substance.”

Embrace your individuality and be happy the way you are

The pressure put on women in today’s society is immense and I admire any female out there who doesn’t let the high demands and expectations get them down. In my experience, I have learned that we, as women, should not let the likes of “perfected” images or “criticism” affect us and It has came as such a relief to me to realize that being different and imperfect is far more interesting than being a “perfect” person. I believe that being yourself and feeling happy as yourself- just the way you are signifies the word “beauty.”

Use your voice

We were all blessed with voices to use them- so use them! I’m a relatively quiet person and a woman of not many words who next to never will indulge in small talk chit chat. It’s just who I am. However, on the other hand, when it comes to standing up for what I believe in or voicing my opinions on things, I never fail to make use of my voice. And neither shall you! Make use of what god has given you and say what you think, say what you believe in, and argue against what you don’t.

Find your dream in life and pursue it

Follow your heart…never give up…and you can do anything. We all have the ability to do whatever it is we want to do and fulfill any dream we want to fulfill; we just have to go and do it. When you find your passion in life, it creates a meaning in your life and gives you a purpose in the world: it generates happiness.

Live up to your morals and values- always remain aware of them

Living by your morals and values in life; inspires you, motivates you and energizes you for doing something significant in the world. As children, we were always being told to be a person of moral and were educated to understand what our values are. I think, when we grow older we seem to loose or forget about those crucial qualities and in order for us to be descent human beings, we should consider re-educating ourselves on morals and values.

http://swsg.org/be-a-woman-of-substance/