My mother did an excellent job in nurturing me and she never hid the real world from me. I was told recently i was stubborn but that is a word people use to tell persons who have a mind of their own that they cannot control. I do not enter meaningless relationships or do I entertain anyone who does and has questionable motives. I do not entertain men who speak ill about other women or seek my opinion about women they deemed to have life challenges who may be asking them for assistance of seeking to do so. BE a man and tell her as it is. As adults we should realize that trying to charm an immature woman is different from one who acts childish or lack experience. At my age I have everything I need material wise, later on I will upgrade them but I will be doing it at my pace. I am not seeking anyone’s assistance to do so. At a certain age there must be some accomplishment you can show for yourself, not to the world but to your kids and if you are not there yet and professing to take on additional responsibilities it shows how immature you are.

Professing to be an excellent communicator does not make you look very credible if you cannot communicate effectively on a simple matter explaining a challenge to complete a task then assume the other person should have known. Some of the brightest people I have met are so arrogant in their behaviour it makes you question why you associate  yourself with them in the first place. I also know for a fact that not everyone who says they like you actually likes you, not everyone who claims to love what you do actually does. 

Flattery does not work on Donna, never has and never will. I remain very grounded and humble, always. I have a gift to know people who are genuine and fake around me and it is a gift that never failed. People can be so vindictive in life so be careful. If they cant have you they will try to discredit you in anyway they seem fit but at the end of the day no one can sweep you under a carpet unless you allow them to. No human being has the power to make me fail at what i do because my gifts were not given to me by human hands therefore it cannot be taken away. :)

Bottom line is when people have questionable motives that are not embraced they get offended and when they get on the defense anything you say of do they take it offensive. At the end of the day I am happy I am always me, I do not need to pretend to belong or associate with anyone. My circle is filled with people from all walks of life with whom i find it easy to relate to. I smile because it is another great day. I frown because i miss my other half..... I rejoice because God always reveal things to me in a timely manner and i dance because i have life and not a ounce of care will be given today to anyone or anything that is negative.