Why is it always the women who tear down each other? Why do we always find that one hurtful comment to say, post or insulting video or picture to share about other women. Does it uplift your spirits to see another woman being hurt?

Why is it always the women who seek to snake their way into a union and cause problems. Yes the men may look at you and express a desire to keep you in secret with the wife or girlfriend BUT you don’t have to jump in. Show some respect and demand that he respects his woman not to cheat. If you all did that men would think twice but some women just let loose like bag juice with no ice. (in Capleton’s voice) Dem just can’t kool.

Why is it that there are some women who never has a good word to say about other women? Why do we do it? Why can't we see a perfect stranger (another woman) and say " wow you look amazing, love your hair" instead you cut your eyes, pull your girlfriend aside and gossip. WEY YUH VEX FAH?

Why do we feel threatened by each other and is always in a competition. " you mad mi cant wear that again after mi no want she laugh after me"..We compete for all the wrong reasons

Who can give the man the best sex

who can reach a foreign first

who can get a big job first

who can buy a house or car first

who can wear the latest clothes

who can change hairstyle the most

You compete for all the wrong reasons and because of that you are always competing. You keep putting your energy in all the wrong places and then you burn out and get stressed out you get depressed and begin to think of ways you can make money to live the life stlye to keep up. This is where you start doing illegal activities, Borrow someones wealthy husband = sell your body. YES SELL

Think about this.... if today your doctor should tell you that you have a terminal illness do you really expect the married/committed man you are borrow to be there with you all the way? nope (man snaps finger) NEXT... Work on building lasting relationships. Good men are out there but inorder to find a good man we have to be his equivalent; a good woman. Stop putting down a man who cannot afford the luxury you what. He will be the one there with you, selling his car jsut to make sure your doctor bills are paid because he wants to be with you. Your beauty will fade, your boobs will sag.. Whats next? 

Why is it when you see another woman fall down on her knees it is a good news to spread? Why when you help her you have to tell the world about it? "You see that shoes dey a mi give Rosie it"..Women are the only ones to go out of their way to make friends with you just so they know your personal business. Want proof? they create fake profile pictures, like all your post, send you messages, and they constantly do it in order to gain your trust.  If you are guilty stop it. 

The only information you enjoying sharing is hot juicy gossip. You wont tell your girlfriend that this course is free at this college so here is an application form, try it out. I would like for us both to keep improving our lifes. NO instead you don't share that information out of fear she may advance before you do so you selfishly keep it to yourself. 

Start working on you and start now. Build up your confidence and self esteem. Next time you enter a room filled with other beautiful women you feel confident enough to share the same space with them and enjoy each others company instead of searching for flaws to discredit them that will make you feel better about yourself..

Our young girls are the products of our behaviour. Yes US. They may not be our children, sisters or cousins but they see us out there and watch how we relate to each other. They watch how we talk about each other and how we chop and tear down each other. THEY HAVE WATCHED AND took notes from us the older ones. They see us on Social Media, in the party, on the road.. Where ever we go they see us. They are struggling to find role models, to find mentors.

Let us help bring back our own morals and lift up once more our standards and little by little BRING BACK OUR OWN girls to become ladies.

Our future depends on it.