it could possibly be only a dream. So many times this becomes the reality for many persons in relationships; it only exists in their dreams. The dream effect means they are happy and the relationship seems to be working and heading in a positive direction; I often say too good to be true. Then one day it feels like a rug is yanked from beneath your feet and you lose your footing and the fall brings you face to face with reality. What do you do then? Do you try to crawl back into the illusion or do you face it head on. Sometimes assumptions are wrong sometimes your right.

Hurt isn't a nice feeling and I speak from my own experience. It weakens you makes you feel wide open. Your constant battle with asking why and how never seem to end but just remember life goes on. With time the wounds don't disappear but you feel the impact less. This impact never leaves you and if your not careful you will allow it to take over a potential relationship.

At the end of the day as humans we all make mistakes. We do things on impulse disregarding the privacy and feelings of the person we invade. It is not for you to justify your actions but for you to deal with your short comings apologise and move on. If this person loves you the way they said they did in your dream then it is time for them to show you in reality. Life is a cycle what you share out you get dished back. It is not automatic for someone to value you the way you value them, you can only pray that they do mean what they say,and,that you see the actions that compliment the words.

Regardless of the pros and cons of relationships we all look for or look out for that ideal mate; we naturally crave Love no matter how many times you have been burnt. But always try to remember if you say your going to give someone a fair chance do so. Do not try to validate having a plan b or c. Such plans means your not planning to give A your best shot. At the end of the day life is simple. You will Love and lose and Love and lose again until you find that one person who loves you enough to help you unpack your baggage or you just wind up trodding life alone.

We all want Love

Rhianana

" I can pretend that I'm not lonely
But I'll be constantly fooling myself
I can pretend that it don't matter
But I'll be sitting here lying to myself
Some say love ain't worth the buck
But I'll give every dime I have left
To have what I've only been dreaming about

Everybody wants something
Gotta want something
What are you living for?
Everybody needs something
Fighting for something
I know what you're fighting for
Cause we all

We all want someone there to hold
We just want somebody
We all wanna be somebody's one and only
We all wanna be warm when it's cold

No one wants to be left scared and lonely. We all want Love.