Would you invite a total stranger into your home? Would you hand them a copy of your house keys so they could come and go as they feel please? Would you allow them to interact with your family freely? If your answer s are NO NO and  Hell NO then please answer this question.

Why do you allow people who make you unhappy into your home? Why do you give them access to your life? And why do you allow them to interact with your family?

Along life’s journey it is a given that you will meet people from varying backgrounds. Some you will go on and make lasting friendships with while others you wish you never met them and try to erase the bad memory. However some of us are too quick to open our entire life to others even before they prove to us that they are worthy to be considered a genuine person.  You have to be careful, these persons are the ones with the house keys, they enter and exit your life at their free will and you lose control over your own life. You find it hard to stop them even though they make you unhappy. They do not add value to your life at all yet you expose them to your family and you fear they spill your private affairs so you keep quiet and allow them to jump in and out.

Unless you make up your mind that enough is enough this will never  change. They will always repeat the same process unless you put a stop to it. Your past is your past and anyone who judges you by it have no business being apart of your present. Learn to sieve out the right people who will eventually get an all inclusive pass to your life, sieve out those who should get a one day pass and sieve out those who need s to get the recording “We’re sorry we have no room left”

Have a great evening.