The conversation went on for around five minutes. The person built a conversation with my cousin even talking about the books I am writing and congratulated me, commented on how my kids are growing nicely and then she asked some personal information that is not on FB in a neat way she said “ oh and I see she is quite happy and not single anymore so who is the lucky guy” Sounding annoyed my cousin replied “ well Dee is old enough to choose wisely and I am sure she is quite happy with who she is with besides relationships last longer when off social media". Over all this wasn’t someone who was just checking up to see if I was okay. This was someone who wanted to get some “Scandal” something juicy to wet their appetite.

After a few minutes I heard my cousin say to her, btw Dee is already on the line just say hi to her and you can ask her all you need, take your time. I immediately shouted “Hey there what’s up, maybe you should be interviewing me and not my cousin next time okay”. It was at that point she realized that Kay was my cousin. I never knew she was until after we graduated high school. Later in the night my cousin said she almost passed out when she realized. The worst part about this is that this person is on my FB page.

Be careful what you say about others and most importantly be careful who you say it to. You never know if you are using your own mouth to set your own trap. It is not nice to go around asking about the personal lives of others and if you really need to know like if it is killing you to know ask the person. I am sure she will think twice the next time she feels like doing it to someone else. She never offended me as human beings are always trying to pry but let me correct that Human beings who have nothing to do and Idle time on their hands go around wasting valuable time trying to get into the personal life of others.

It is a good day to have a good day and I am already having a good day. Are you having a good day?