So you say you are tired of being disappointed. Tired of the wrong men walking in and out of your life and you feel hopeless. No one loves you the way you yearn then ERKS BRAPS here comes along a potential mate. Yes that is how we women are,  we would be in the middle of cussing men and then a fine ass piece of brother just walked pass and we start to stutter and your eyes follow his fine piece of ass. You take one glance and already summed him up. Take notes..

Never assume anything based on a mans attire or looks AKA Swag. It doesn't mean a thing except he puts him self together nicely. Doesn't mean he is nice, rich, romantic etc cut the assumptions keep an open mind. Moving on..this cutie starts laying it on you telling you how beautiful you are how much he wants a chance to prove to you that he could make you happy..take notes he has no idea what you desire but still tells you what he feels you want to hear and as women we get all giggly and listen over and over. At this point I usually interject and ask him what's makes me happy..he would stuttered then try to change the subject and starts a distraction about traveling and vacationing and creating memories.

Now let's say he gets pass that interview I mean discussion and he finally invites you on a date. It depends on you where he will take you. you see just as how you summed him up the minute you saw him he did the same even assessed your bust and butt size. Moving on and ts date night and your feeling super hot. Hair all done up, make up is flawless, heels wow you going all out but stop. Why are you dressing up the coochie? Why do you care if you wear a sling shot or a bullet riddled panty? Why are you putting on lace Vicky sets under your clothes? Why are you dressing up the coochie when you just going on a date to eat, laugh and get to know him a little more based on what you said you are looking for and then go home. Let me tell you why. In the back of your head your saying "just in case it gets a little hot at least I have on something sexy" CUT IT You know I am

spot on right ladies.

But your making yourself very vulnerable and opening up yourself to be a possible one night stand. Then when he stops calling you cry and say he took advantage of you.DID HE? You tell your girlfriends everything he did and that it was his fault.  You keep wondering what you did that was wrong. Some men are hunters. They love a good chase and that is what keeps their interest going so ladies before you bring out the coochie get to know your potential partner.  Learn to leave the coochie at home and stop dressing it up for the date dress your mind and emotions and keep focus. You made a list of requirements you need in a man so refresh your mind. Go and enjoy the date coochie less it will pay off at the end of the day.

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